May 11, 2008, Sunday

It’s Mother’s day weekend.

Mom prepared a bunch of flower to put in Lydia’s grave.

Once arrived, she saw so many flowers all over the cemetery. She was a little bit surprised, but felt pretty good. After putting the flower in the vase on Lydia’s grave, she walked around to see other graves with flowers…

Soon, she started to cry. And cried very bad.

Because…

Mom realized that all the flowers in the grave were at deceased old aged moms’ grave. Apparently, the flowers were from their adult children in remembrance of their mothers.

Mom was the only one who put flowers on her daughter’s grave on Mother’s day.

The total opposite from others people...

The situation like this. Again, I think, it’s very difficult to bear.

But thank God, mom survived and shared with me this experience. And of course, she cried like crazy when she described it to me …